Taboo Sex (7 Taboo Acts People Love)

by Sonali Rawat

When we think of the word taboo, the first thing that pops into our head is something disgusting. The thing is, taboo sex acts are considered outside of the norm. However, they’re perfectly normal. We all have different things that we like in life. While one person may prefer to vacation in the mountains, another would rather go to the beach. 

People are like this with their sex lives, too. When you think of it like that, sex acts that are considered taboo are actually quite normal. 

They’re simply a preference. 

Taboo Sex Acts

This seems to refer to anything that falls outside of standard penetration and oral sex. For years, these were shamed. A person couldn’t express their sexual desire without people calling them weird. Traditional stereotypes of men being unbelievably horny at all times and those women should not want sex was the norm. 

Today, all of that has changed. While some people are still shamed for their sexual preferences that are defined as taboo, more and more people don’t care.When movies and books like Fifty Shades of Grey soared in popularity, it brought the world of BDSM and other sex acts were kept in the dark to the spotlight, and communities that engaged in these acts began to speak out. 

Now, it seems like everyone has a kink. We all have our fetishes. Here are some of the ones that people love!

1. Roleplay

Role-play can take on various forms. Maybe it’s the hot maintenance man that came over to fix the sink. Or perhaps a schoolgirl that’s being punished. This could also be something like the pool boy being unbelievably hot. This taboo sex act is all about having fun and exploring those hot fantasies in real life. 

2. Foot fetishes

People having a foot fetish is so popular that it’s hard to believe it is still considered taboo. Some people just love a person’s feet and make love to them. Those that enjoy this might not be honest in the beginning, but more and more people are becoming open to this one. 

3. Exhibitionism

A person on Reddit actually started a thread because of them being into exhibitionism. They asked what other people were into, and the comments did not disappoint. (I don’t think Reddit ever disappoints us when it comes to people being open and honest.) 

Some people created a throwaway account to reveal their sexual taboos, but plenty of people were very open, including the original poster. 

Exhibitionism is when a person likes other people watching them. In fact, so many people are into this that it’s become widely accepted and popular in places like swingers clubs. You do your thing, and someone watches you. 

4. Eating the booty like groceries

Rimming is so common now that it’s another one that is hard to believe it’s still considered taboo, but it definitely is. Some people are still turning their noses up at this one and referring to it as gross. Other people are saying that it needs to be eaten like a cupcake. 

This one comes in two forms, though. Some people derive pleasure from being on the receiving end, and others from being on the giving end. For some, it’s all about oral, and for others, it’s about going further than that. 

5. Public sex

Some people get a lot of pleasure from the rush of getting nasty when they have the chance of being caught in public. It’s having to be quiet that excites them. There are people that shame this because, well, anyone can walk by. However, that’s what most people find so fun about it. 

This is really common in people that also like exhibitionism. The thought of someone catching them and watching is double the fun! This can be having fun in a parking lot, or simply opening the blinds and hoping the neighbors catch a glimpse. There are some people on Reddit that don’t even claim it’s about sex itself. 

Instead, it’s the mere act of someone watching them while they walk around the house naked. 

6. Incest 

For some, this is a kink all about any family member. Others, the thought of someone else’s family doing it instantly gets them aroused. PornHub is packed with so many videos of a mother and daughter exploring intimate fantasies to fathers and daughters having “fun” that it’s not hard to believe this is a huge kink for a lot of people. 

Most people that have this fantasy tend to have it about something in particular. For example, some fantasize about their own family members. Others think that is disgusting but fantasize about other families having incest. There’s a wide range of taboos, and most people have a specific preference regarding those. 

7. Submission kink

This falls into the category of BDSM. (BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadochism and masochism.) Most people that are exploring the world of BDSM find their way to this in one way or another. 

One person completely submits to another. The sub, or person that submits, gets a lot of pleasure from giving their body to someone else. The other gets to fulfill their desires related to domination. 

Other Taboo Sex 

While these are some of the most common, they are far from the only ones out there. Raceplay, orgasm torture, sex with multiple people, choking, spitting and so much more fall into this category. When people begin to explore what they like and explore what they don’t, they find out that there are quite a few more things in this category than they realized. 

When people begin to truly explore their sexuality and live out those fantasies, they quickly find out that sometimes their desires don’t match up to what is considered the norm. In fact, so many people fall outside of the norm now, that taboo desires are quickly becoming the norm. 

Non-penetrative sex is not always the norm, but it is extremely popular. During this type of sex, a person can still have an orgasm. In fact, both people might have orgasms. It’s during oral sex or via the use of toys instead of penis/vagina sex, though. 

Some people simply don’t want this type of sex. Just as there are various things that turn different people on, there are quite a few things that others view as normal that turn a person off. There are those that don’t want penetration, some that don’t like oral sex, etc. 

Consent Is Key

I feel like taboo sex gets a bad rep because of a few things. Yes, it’s outside of most people’s norm.When women are degraded, we instantly associate that with an unhealthy relationship. 

That is why it’s always important to remember that consent is a big part of what separates taboo sex, like BDSM, from things like rape and an unhealthy relationship. Each person offers consent and has fun. They are then able to explore their sexuality and different desires. After a person gives consent, they aren’t obligated to continue doing anything that they don’t like or want to do. 

Both people can stop at any time.