Women Cheat! Does this apply to you?

After a lot of views and on my reader’s demand, I dare to speak on this topic. Aaaahhhh…. Women..!!!! The most beautiful yet complicated creation of god. As I said earlier cheating has nothing to do with the gender however, situations may vary for a MAN and a WOMAN.

As far as stereotypes go, a wandering eye and the urge to jump into bed with multiple partners seems to be built into a man's DNA, but when it comes to cheating, the sexes are created more equally than we think. (Cough, my girlfriends, cough.) I guess it comes down to the fact that we humans were never biologically designed to be monogamous.

Our heroines did it in Unfaithful, American Beauty & Sex and the City. And they’re not the only ones. Although women haven’t surpassed men on the cheating scale, more married and committed women than ever before are jumping in the sack with someone other than their partners. I read somewhere that according to a survey done in 2012, 99% of the people would cheat given the opportunity and circumstances:-O

I have dished out some reasons why women cheat. 

Going Through A Transition 

If it is turning a certain age, losing a parent, a major change in their weight or advancing the relationship status, women become introspective. Even if it is something she wants, such as just getting engaged, the transition can stir up an array of emotions about where her life is going or where she is in it. The discomfort of change can trigger an impulsive desire to find someone to take her focus off the change and be a diversion for what she is going through. Sex can be an instant pick-me-up; a self esteem booster that makes women feel sexier, more beautiful and more loved.

Not Feeling Adequately Celebrated 

Women wear many hats in a relationship — housekeeper, errand-runner, grocery shopper, babysitter, etc. When she feels more like a maid than a girlfriend/wife, that’s when she could stray. The fact that you spend all your time at work or drinking at a bar with your friends gives her double reason to seek attention elsewhere. No, you can’t quit your job, but you can thank her for all her selfless deeds — and do your share around the house. Women seek an emotional connection that their partner notices them, is proud of their achievements, and appreciates what they do, so when they aren’t getting this at home the residual effects lead to feelings of frustration, dissatisfaction, depression, and restlessness.

And that's when they could go looking for it elsewhere. When you are living in the day to day with someone, it is challenging to step outside a situation and notice the things that do matter to someone. As this wears down over time, so as soon as the woman encounters someone who ignites the spark they are lacking at home, they equate it to an emotional connection and seek companionship with someone else.

It’s Just Not Fun Anymore 

...But it's too hard to pull the plug. “When you don’t laugh, you don’t love.” Laughter is one of the key elements in a relationship that often gets overlooked. There is even a saying, “If you can make her smile, you can make her do anything.” Remember the good old days when you could stay up forever fooling around? Then responsibility entered the mix — and kids — and before you knew it, sleep was more important than sex. Well, women want to feel wanted. When stresses of day to day life become the dominant factor in a relationship, women feel unhappy. When they come across a coworker or friend that they have a good time with, it suddenly brings to light what is missing in their own relationship and becomes tempting to act upon.

Its Boring In The Bedroom 

Men aren't the only ones who need to spice things up. "Women need to feel desired!" If she is not getting any, enough, or nothing to talk about, women start to feel a sexual void. With the popularity of books such as Fifty Shades of Grey, television shows, or listening to friends talk about their fun single trysts, women have that moment when they compare their love life at home to what the rest of the world seems to be experiencing. And that's when she may start to wonder what she's missing. 

Break the routine 

Just as men feel the urge to sow their wild oats, some women have an inner sex kitten just waiting to be unleashed — and when the beast escapes from the cage, look out. Keep the lines of communication open and she’ll be more likely to talk to you about what’s going on instead of spilling her guts to a stranger in the night.

Though it is easy to pinpoint the flaws in one's life, it is often hard to make the changes needed to correct them. This creates a temptation in women to seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere with someone they don’t have the baggage with and can be more uninhibited. Sex can become monotonous if you let it — the same position; the same setting; the same person. An affair adds adventure and gets her adrenalin flowing. To avoid routine, avoid repetition. Sweep her away for the weekend, make out at the movies, and kiss her for no reason at all... The unexpected adds excitement ;-)

p.s if you're thinking about cheating, just break up with the guy, before you move on to a new one.